I ferreted out a fellow Jewish New Yorker once when I was leaving Miami for Dar. I’d been alone, away from my family, to fetch supplies for a summer trek and a NY accent really gets my attention. The time came for us to line up and board our flight to Istanbul. We realized we were in the same group of seats, so we queued together. They were slow in boarding and we wound up with an hour-long chat. By then I learned that he was a zealot for the Jewish state and a huge Trump supporter. He was traveling to Tel Aviv to see his daughter. He was excellent with law and language. I’m the opposite. I can’t fight anything line and page number. We finally boarded. It was packed. We’d be lost to one another and I’d get away from the uncomfortable conversation.
His seat, it turned out, was in my row, only one vacant seat between us. I discreetly scanned the cabin. Surely, since not one other seat was empty, there was no chance of this seat remaining so. I’d not be stuck 14 hours next to this fellow. But yes. The seat between me and this frantic man remained empty.
By then we’d waded into all kinds of territory. I took a breath and said, “Yeah, well, I am Jewish. I went to Hebrew school. My mom’s Jewish. But I became a Christian when I was 13.” I’d basically just told him I murdered 12 young children. He called me nasty names in Yiddish, which, of course, I understood. The plane took off. I thought, Shit. I’m not AT ALL interested in converting anyone to Christianity. He can worship Yoda so far as I’m concerned. I’m engaged with faith, not proper nouns. But he’s a dog on meat. Why would a woman from a prominent Jewish NY family convert to Christianity? He’s insulted, offended, mesmerized the way someone might be passing a car accident.
Finally I said, “Listen, I’ll tell you why I believe what I believe, if you want, but I’m sure it will be hard to hear, and certainly nothing you agree with.” He considered only a moment, and said, “Tell me.” This was brave of him. I thought, OK, so this prick’s gonna want rules, reasons, so I can’t go at it that way. He’s gonna want me to insult the Jews, which ain’t happening. I lurch in thinking, I’m so fucked, “OK, ok, so, so let’s assume for a moment that I’m wandering in my birthplace, and, without realizing it, I find myself in foreign territory, enemy territory.” I watch him. He’s scrambling to seek a hole, a way to punch through what I say, and I think, No, you turd, …. “so here I am, I’ve accidentally crossed a border and I can’t cross back. I’m powerless to get back; the border between the two states is categorically impassable, that once I strayed into enemy territory I became indelibly marked as one of the enemy’s own.” He doesn’t want to nod, but, fuck yeah, he has to, nothing to argue so far. Tread lightly Aimee, I pray, God give me the grace to do this well. “Yeah, so, I’m fucked, right? Anyone seeking to fetch me would wind up polluted like me.” I throw in language. “So, OK, let’s assume, then, that what it would take to release me is atonement, some way to make it so that the irreversible condition I’m in is erased, like it never happened, then I’d be fit to recross into my birth territory.”
“No matter what I do, I’m in a bad way. I can’t clean up my stained soul. But what if you could make a new way? What if I could access a Golem-suit, like a costume of perfection?” He nods. I keep plugging along, “Yeah, so, in order to access that kind of costume, something perfect would have to enter into territory unfit for Itself, right? So how, then, does perfection enter into imperfection? What if there was a way to stake out one touchstone in hell?” He’s got nothing to say, so I just keep going.
“OK, so God’s a gambler, right? We have free will. That was a hell of a gamble, literally, it seems.” I laugh here, hoping he will. He doesn’t. I plunge on, “So then, here’s the bargain. God makes a deal with the dictator of the country that I’m stuck inside of. God and the dictator agree: God sends the heir of his kingdom to the other territory, the one I’m imprisoned in. Then that dictator can have his way with God’s heir. He can give it his best shot. For 30 years, he has unlimited access and opportunity to pervert the heir. It would only take a splinter of sin, a fraction of evil, and both sides would then belong to the dictator.” I’m going full on now, just as the plane hits cruising altitude. The whole exchange will last maybe 20 minutes.
“So you know, then, the dictator, that dumb, proud fuck, he’s rubbing his hands together saying, Sure!” I’ve got my seatmate’s undivided attention. “So the heir is subject to a full on assault orchestrated by the dictator, raped nine ways to Sunday. But the dictator, he gets carried away. The coup de grâce – the dictator murders the heir.” My new friend waited for the punch line, but he is very polite now; his face is inscrutable. I finish, “Yeah, well, big mistake, killing him. Because the thing is, the heir is perfect, so what happens is that for an instant something perfect, something unable to die achieves death voluntarily. For a moment hell swallows the perfect thing, consumes the heir whole before realizing that it’s categorically impossible for imperfection to contain perfection. And just like that, hell vomits the heir back up, no choice. And violà, the dictator is fucked as he watches the veil torn in two, top to bottom. Now there’s this outpost, an intersection where, if I go, there’s a passage, a holy tunnel, a golem-elevator that I can use by stepping into the heir’s costume.”
I shut up. He doesn’t even pull away from where he’s leaned into me until I deliberately lean back. He follows my lead, and leans back into his seat, suddenly embarrassed. Now I’m so tired I do not want to talk at all. I locate the pills I take for sleep, and say, “Please tell them I’m skipping all the meals, I’m going to sleep.” I strap on my sleep mask, headphones. I plan to pretend to sleep. I can’t sleep. I never sleep in my own bed, or in first class, but economy class? Hahahahaha. I fell asleep that moment and slept 14 hours; I never used the toilet, never smelled food, nothing. More than a half day later, my now old friend taps my back lightly as we touch down in Istanbul, his eyes wide with incredulity. He says, “I’ve never seen anyone sleep like that on a plane!” We swap blessings as he heads to Tell Aviv. Now I can shit myself before catching my next flight. He’s not impressed with my evangelism, but that I can sleep. God works how God works.
I’m selling a product people either think they already own, or, on the other hand, think is ridiculous. It’s a total fucking blast.
God has to be able to withstand any level, any question. If faith breaks into bits or loses focus under pressure, under scrutiny, it’s useless. If you can’t say, with conviction, why you believe what you believe, then your faith is not useful. And it has to be useful or it’s nothing at all. I don’t give a fuck about conversions. I was desperate for real help. Truth is immutable. It will not collapse. There is no weak point in pure truth. Truth is perfectly strong. There is no waste, no clutter, just tenderness, dignity, mercy, and love. It’s not about winning; it’s about sharing victories together.